Thursday Thirteen #2

Thirteen Dos and Don'ts from the life of a little fairy girl DO: Love, light, and laughter - Approach every situation with love, shine the light on everything you do, and laugh as much as humanly possible. DON'T: Assume we are wiser than children. Most often we are not and here's why (taken from an extremely enlightened and wise man I met recently) Children don't complicate things - they call it as they see it and love it for whatever it is. Example: When they need to forgive someone or need forgiveness - they just do it - just say "I'm sorry." or "You are forgiven." Then they are done with it and move on with their little lives. No complications. DO: Give the polite "wave" to people when they let you turn, change lanes, pull out of a parking lot. (Even better... blow them a KISS!) DON'T: Give pooty, insincere, one-handed with the "finger pat" on the back hugs - MEAN IT when you hug someone - Show you care and really embrace the person... give the love in the hug and RECEIVE it back! DO: Wear color! Lots of it!!! So much black, brown, white, grey - We need more color!! Every color has a different energy with it... lets spread more energy around! DON'T: Put more negative energy into already negative situations, instead find the positive side and CLING to it. Law of attraction: We get more of whatever we send out(think about) - There is always a positive angle - sometimes it's harder to find than the negative side, but don't give in just because it's easier - the positive is there and if we search for it we WILL find it! DO: Smile... A LOT! Try to put a smile on the face of those around you everyday - If we get someone to smile we have touched their life - We may not know the why or how - But we have, probably more than we will ever know. DON'T: Start smoking - ever. Seriously, quitting is hard and SUCKS!... Big time!! DO: Breathe. I'm "relearning" how to breathe correctly. I know that for as long as I can remember I stop breathing randomly or take weird half breaths. One of my teachers told me the other day that when we do that it means on some level we are wishing we were not here (on the planet). So lets take a deep breath together and be happy we are here, life is good. DON'T: Make promises you can't keep. It disappoints and hurts others. Learning to say no is soooo v.e.r.y. hard (especially when you have HUGE disappointment issues like me!) but it's a lesson worth learning when broken promises is where always saying yes leads you. DO: Love yourself. DON'T: Think we are ever alone in anything! God, angels, fairies, spirit guides, guardian angels, loved ones that have passed, etc. are ALWAYS with us - the key is in noticing the signs and ways in which they communicate with us. The Mommy of Love told me a cute story about this - her goddaughter passed away about a year ago - and ever since then starting on the day of her funeral her goddaughter's mom gets calls on her cell phone from someone speaking Spanish - She knows that is her daughter saying "HI!! I'm here with you!" DO: Tell those that you love that you love them. Often. Get the Thursday Thirteen code here! The purpose of the meme is to get to know everyone who participates a little bit better every Thursday. Visiting fellow Thirteeners is encouraged! If you participate, leave the link to your Thirteen in others comments. It’s easy, and fun! Be sure to update your Thirteen with links that are left for you, as well! I will link to everyone who participates and leaves a link to their 13 things. Trackbacks, pings, comment links accepted! View More Thursday Thirteen Participants